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PRANCE, TWIRL, JUMP!
Flying Omelette wrote:I don't know why some people have such a hard time letting go.
It's a personality disorder. You can't expect it to change:http://www.daughtersofnarcissisticmothers.com/gaslighting/https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/power-in-relationships/200905/are-you-being-gaslightedLiterally explains EVERYTHING. Just about every behavior that we've complained about the past 15 years is described here.
I don't know why some people have such a hard time letting go.
...this fallacy is used when a person has no intention of changing their mind about a position, no matter the evidence presented against the position or in favor of a differing position.This tactic is commonly used in bullying, as well, causing no-win
situations for victims in order to rationalize the bullying taking
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Deb, don't worry about it. It's easier to understand now why we had trouble coming to a resolution, but I don't hold grudges anyway.
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James FP wrote:I've made a promise to myself to not indulge in forum politics much anymore, but the only thing I want to say right now is that my uncle is not a gaslighter so much as a racist prick who refuses to accept that his ideology is stuck in the Jim Crow era and is not acceptable these days, and that I'm adult who manages my department at work, not an 8-year-old who's still controlled by his "mommy".
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I know it's an incredibly difficult thing to do for many people and seen
as taboo by many more, but I had my experiences with being stabbed in
the back on the early internet to thank for waking me up to how awful
many people are and undeserving of your kindness. Even the ones who
claim to be your friends and care about you. People like you and Paul
are extremely rare.
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Sofia the 3rd wrote:FO, if I had known about these websites that explain all these conditions we were foolishly trying to deal with on our own, things would've gone very differently. I'm sorry for how things went. I still have feelings of guilt and anxiety over outing Paul and hurting you and Daryn when you were experiencing personal problems that I didn't know about. I don't know what to do to make it all right again.
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Flying Omelette wrote:You don't have to feel bad about me. It isn't a bad thing that I quit the site. It took those events to open my eyes to the fact that I really was being used.
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